I’m afraid my siblings will bully me if I tell them I’m bisexual

DEAR ABBY: I am a teenage girl who has recently discovered I am bisexual. I told a few close friends, and I’m happy to say they have accepted me. Nothing has changed. I have not told any of my family yet. I know my parents will support me, but the problem is two of my four siblings. They constantly tease and taunt me, call me names and pick on me. 

I have been raised to stand up to bullies, and I am mostly confident with myself. I have brought up their bullying to my parents a couple of times, but after discipline from my parents they keep doing it. They are clearly homophobic, and I know they will tease and pick on me even more if I come out to them. 

I want to tell my parents, but I’m afraid it will inevitably lead to my siblings knowing. I don’t think if my younger siblings knew they would care, but they might be confused or weirded out since the concept is foreign to them. 

Should I try to convince my parents not to say anything to my siblings until later? I don’t want to hide, but I don’t want to be pushed to depression, low self-esteem or worse if my vocal homophobic siblings know and chastise me about my sexual orientation. — NEW LGBTQ+ MEMBER

DEAR MEMBER: Your siblings are not necessarily “homophobic.” They may just get a kick out of making their younger sister uncomfortable, and whatever punishment they receive is not sufficient to curb the problem. Whether your parents divulge it, your sexual orientation will become apparent sooner or later, so don’t bother hiding. You have friends and parents who support you. Handling negative comments from your immature sibs will give you the confidence to handle others in the future. 

You may want to consider joining a LGBTQ-friendly youth group for additional support. Your parents can find ways to help you by contacting an organization called PFLAG (pflag.org). It’s the first and largest organization for LGBTQ people, their parents, families and allies. You are an intelligent teen who is in the process of discovering who you are, and for that I applaud you.

DEAR ABBY: Over the last year and a half, I’ve been in a relationship with someone I have known for a lifetime. He’s married but working on getting a divorce. He has promised we will do things together once everything is settled. There have been several recent deaths in his family, including a grandchild who was killed by a drunk driver. 

Until a week ago we talked daily, when he told me he needed some time to think and get everything straight. I offered to return the things of his that I have. He said not to, and repeated that he just needed some time. His family has leaned on him for years. I’m sure he is overwhelmed. Should I wait and see what’s next or mend my heart and move on? — STANDING BY IN THE EAST

DEAR STANDING BY: As you are probably aware, I have printed many letters from women who were strung along far longer than two years. Back off. Give him six months to get his head and his life straight and to get that divorce filed. If nothing has changed by then, you will have devoted only two years of your life to the affair, and you should move on.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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New research facility shows how to live with rising tides

NORFOLK, Va. — The Elizabeth River Project’s latest work doesn’t fight the rising tide. It will roll with it.

The environmental group is constructing a 6,500-foot resilience lab along Colley Avenue and Knitting Mill Creek. The building has an intentional life span of about 30 to 50 years; when sea levels reach a certain height, the structure can be disassembled and moved to allow a living shoreline, that’s part of the design, to take its place.

The outdoor pavilion will float when the area floods and is meant as a refuge for people who canoe down the river-like streets after a deluge or for those caught outside.

The Pru and Louis Ryan Resilience Lab and Learning Park is scheduled to open next fall. The $8 million project is funded by Pru and Louis Ryan of Norfolk and donations through the ERP’s Next Wave Campaign. The group picked the location because it is a notorious flood zone and the creek is an important tributary.

Marjorie Mayfield, executive director of ERP, said the lab is meant to be an example of how to live with rising tides and not against them, while also reducing the environmental footprint.

The lab was designed by the Norfolk firm Work Program Architects and will be constructed to protect against a 3-foot increase in sea level. It is also being built using “off-the-shelf materials that any business owner or resident has access to,” said Sam Bowling, lead architect and project manager.

The lab will be equipped with solar panels, rainwater collection barrels and gray water collection systems. It also will employ natural cooling techniques such as a “green wall” of ivy.

The proposed living shoreline will be at the back of the property and planted to restore wetland and oyster habitats. Once in place, it will help trap contaminants and filter the water.

There will be two storage sheds, one of which will float, a research dock and a public boardwalk for people to look out over the creek. A kayak launch will be just off the boardwalk.

The Hampton Roads Sanitation District already built a dock on the property and the Virginia Institute of Marine Science has put in a water monitoring station there. Other institutions are planning to conduct research at the lab when construction is completed.

ERP is also planning to host workshops, in collaboration with Old Dominion University, that teach about coastal adaptation.

Mayfield hopes the project will be the start of something bigger — an “eco-district” of businesses and homes that are able to adjust to rising tides with sustainable infrastructure and reduce stormwater runoff pollution.

The “cornerstone will be our Ryan Resilience Lab, and I think it will be a really cool place to come to enjoy environmentally minded people and businesses,” Mayfield said.

The group plans to work with businesses in the area to improve eco-friendliness using techniques like rainwater collection and extending permeable sidewalks along the north Colley corridor. The ERP also plans to plant more trees, install rain gardens and walkways around the lab that will permit rainwater to seep into the ground and prevent runoff.

Concrete sidewalks allow water to flow over them and send pollutants into nearby bodies of water.

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Cancer in young adults is rising — is a ‘westernized’ lifestyle to blame?

The cancer age gap is closing — to the detriment of younger generations.

A new study has shown that young, ordinarily healthy adults are being diagnosed with cancer at worrying rates.

Researchers from Brigham and Women’s Hospital saw that more and more people under the age of 50 are being diagnosed with cancer of the breast, colon, esophagus, kidney, liver, pancreas and more — globally — in a trend that took a sharp upward turn around the year 1990.

“From our data, we observed something called the birth cohort effect. This effect shows that each successive group of people born at a later time (e.g., decade-later) have a higher risk of developing cancer later in life, likely due to risk factors they were exposed to at a young age,” said Dr. Shuji Ogino, professor of pathology and physician-scientist at Brigham and Women’s, in a press release.

“We found that this risk is increasing with each generation,” Ogino continued. “For instance, people born in 1960 experienced higher cancer risk before they turn 50 than people born in 1950 and we predict that this risk level will continue to climb in successive generations.”

Cancer is a genetic disease — it’s caused by changes in genes that lead to cell division error and tumors. Some of these genetic changes are inherited, but the new study, published in Nature Reviews Clinical Oncology, focused on environmental factors that cause damage to DNA and contribute to the cancer growth.

Researchers found that there was an increase of young people with cancer.
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Cancer-causing toxins could be more rampant than people believe. There are a few well-known risks out in the world, such as high UV exposure or smoking cigarettes, while emerging research now points to second-, and even third-hand smoke — as in touching surfaces contaminated by smoke residue — as significant carcinogens, too.

When looking at the incidence of 14 types of cancers, Ogino, along with lead study author Dr. Tomotaka Ugai and their team, discovered an increasing trend of cancer presence and diagnosis prior to the age of 50.

Harmful exposures at a young age — which could point to problematic diet, lifestyle behaviors and environmental pollution — could play a vital role. Since those factors have drastically changed in the past few decades, the scientists have suggested that a “westernized” lifestyle could be a major contributor to the development of cancer.

Alcohol consumption, smoking, obesity, eating highly processed foods and sleep deprivation are potential risk factors, much of which is on the rise around the world.

“Among the 14 cancer types on the rise that we studied, eight were related to the digestive system. The food we eat feeds the microorganisms in our gut,” said Ugai. “Diet directly affects microbiome composition and eventually these changes can influence disease risk and outcomes.”

While the team could not adequately analyze low- and middle-income countries due to insufficient data, Ogino and Ugai hope to continue their cancer research and work with international research groups going forward.

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Tired mother’s funny back-to-school photo: ‘Mom’s first day’

This mom has first-day bitters.

A mother in North Carolina shared her hilarious spin on a classic back-to-school trend, turning the camera on herself in a now-viral snapshot that struck a chord with exhausted parents everywhere.

Jeni Bukolt snapped a photo of herself wearing sunglasses, unenthusiastically holding up a black chalkboard sign that noted it was the first day of school.

“Mom’s first day of school,” the decorated sign read, as seen in her Instagram photo.

“I am 42 years tired. I’ll probably miss a school ‘theme’ day.” I really like sleep. Please don’t ask me to volunteer, but I will buy you supplies.”

The satirical post poked fun at the classic back-to-school photos that flood Facebook feeds every fall as students pose with Pinterest-inspired signs listing their age, grade and fun facts about themselves before returning to school.

“Happy ‘Back to School’ season to all the parents,” Bukolt wrote in the caption. “May we not forget a ‘theme’ day or accidentally send our kids to the bus stop on the teacher work days, or forget to pick them up on the randomly scheduled half days. May we have patience and give each other grace for doing our best!”

Bukolt wanted to “create a lighthearted moment” during a usually stressful time and hopes that “other moms can get a good laugh about it.”
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The mother of two and owner of branding agency HAVEN Creative said the idea came to her last minute as her boys were getting ready for their first day.

“I thought maybe if I can create a lighthearted moment, some other moms will laugh and understand we’re all in this kind of struggle together. Like, let’s have empathy for each other,” Bukolt told “Good Morning America.”

“I also feel like when you look at social media, there’s all these, [picture perfect] worlds. It’s not the true story. And some people think like, ‘Oh, they have it better or they’re perfect,’ and this is an opportunity to say no, we’re all real human beings … we’re all in the struggle together.”

The post attracted a few hateful comments but Bukolt doesn’t mind. She followed her initial post with another photo of the sign with an added sticky note that read: “P.S. I love my boys and teachers. It’s a joke.”

“The whole purpose behind it was just the struggle of myself going, ‘Here comes another year. I hope I don’t forget anything.’ Because trying to be an entrepreneur and a wife and a mom and juggling all the things, I feel like I’m constantly failing in some area of my life,” she explained.

“If other moms can get a good laugh about it, then that makes my heart happy,” Bukolt said.

Parents aren’t the only ones already feeling the exhaustion of the looming school year. Two-thirds of American teachers report feeling burned out, a recent study found.

In fact, parents are a lot more confident than teachers, research from OnePoll found, reporting that 44% of teachers and 55% of parents are feeling less anxious about the upcoming school year compared to last year.



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Scorching temperatures, rain could bring sad end to summer

It was bound to happen, America. Summer is coming to a close. But not before we get one more celebration in to hold onto the dog days of summer.

Millions of people will be hitting the roads and taking to the skies to celebrate Labor Day. But for millions of Americans, scorching temperatures and the risk of rain and thunderstorms could dampen those last cookouts, clambakes and afternoons at the beach.

Here’s a closer look at the Labor Day holiday forecast from the FOX Forecast center.

Sunday

Heading into Sunday, the threat of rain and thunderstorms will shift a bit to the east.

The threat will linger for the Lone Star State and along the Gulf Coast, but chances for showers extend north through the Mississippi and Kentucky valleys, as well as the Great Lakes and into the Northeast.

Rain chances will also be seen in the mid-Atlantic and Southeast.

Temperature-wise, the FOX Forecast Center is seeing another day of triple-digit temperatures in parts of the West and Southwest, while places around Atlanta will reach the 80s.

From the mid-Atlantic and Northeast, temperatures will also be in the mid- to upper 80s.

Seattle will again hover around the 80-degree mark as well, and Billings will be “slightly cooler” than Saturday with a forecast high of about 97 degrees.

Heading into Sunday, the threat of rain and thunderstorms will shift a bit to the east.

And heads up, this has also been the summer of the shark along East Coast beaches.

Several shark attacks were reported in New Jersey and New York, putting beachgoers on edge.

And on Cape Cod in Massachusetts, at least 20 sharks were spotted in the water over the course of a week.

Rain chances will also be seen in the mid-Atlantic and Southeast.

If you’re going to the airport on Sunday, you may need to prepare for delays and cancelations depending on where you’re catching a flight.

The FOX Forecast Center is expecting some issues at airports in Boston due to weather, and major airports in the South and Southeast are also at-risk of seeing some problems.

Dallas, Houston, New Orleans, Memphis, Atlanta and Orlando could all see some issues, so check with your airline directly for the latest information.

If you’re going to the airport on Sunday, you may need to prepare for delays and cancelations depending on where you’re catching a flight.

Monday

Monday – Labor Day. The unofficial end to summer.

The threat of sub-par weather will continue across the eastern half of the United States, with more chances of rain and thunderstorms across places from the Southwest, Midwest and Northeast.

There’s a chance of rain from Norfolk, Virginia, north through the Big Apple and New England, but temperatures will range from the low to mid-80s across much of the region.

If you’re looking for sunshine (like most people), you’ll want to head west.

Denver will be very hot at 95 degrees with plenty of sun, and the heat will extend to Billings, where the area will likely see a high temperature of around 97 degrees.

Temperatures get hotter the further west you go, so places like Reno will see a high temperature of about 100 degrees on Labor Day.

Temperatures will remain on the cool side in the Seattle area, where the Emerald City will likely remain in the mid-70s.

If you’ve been meaning to get out to one of our country’s beautiful national parks before the end of summer, you’ve got a lot of catching up to do if you want to be like this grandma-grandson duo.

Grandma Joy Ryan and her 41-year-old grandson have been crisscrossing the country on a mission to visit every single national park in the country, and they’ve only got one left to visit.

Their ambitious quest began with a road trip to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park in 2015. In the past seven years, these intergenerational travelers have driven more than 50,000 miles to visit 62 out of 63 parks on their bucket lists.

In terms of issues at the airports in the country, most of the problems will likely be in the same locations that could see delays and cancellations over the course of Labor Day weekend.

Houston, New Orleans, Memphis, Atlanta and Orlando will likely see more issues, and passengers should arrive at the airport with plenty of time to space in order to get through security and check bags.

But, again, don’t waste a trip to the airport if you don’t have to – reach out to the airline directly to make sure things remain on the up and up.

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I busted my boyfriend for cheating — when he lasted too long in bed

It was a blessing and a curse.

A jilted woman is going viral after revealing how she figured out that her boyfriend was cheating — when he unexpectedly got better in bed.

The sexy sleuth elaborated on her discovery in a recent TikTok repost detailing his suspicious longevity in the sack. The original clip reportedly amassed more than 700,000 views before her account was suspended for unrelated reasons, according to Jam Press.

“He lasted longer than usual in bed,” 22-year-old Pernille Torhov, from Norway, said of the tantalizing tell — which she noticed during a lovemaking session just after her beau had returned from a trip. She claimed that they had been dating for four months when he told her he was going on a jaunt to a cabin with his pals.

Alarm bells went off after the couple made whoopie upon his return, and Torhov noticed that a change in his boudoir performance.

Specifically, her boyfriend took his time in the sack, which Torhov deemed odd as “it had been a week since we last saw each other.”

“He lasted longer than usual in bed,” said Pernille Torhov, 22 describing the unlikely tell.
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Alarm bells went off after the couple made whoopie upon his return, when Torhov noticed that her soulmate was taking an unusually long time in the sack.
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“I was thinking to myself that it was a bit strange, but didn’t say anything to him,” said the suspicious Norwegian, who decided to turn a “blind eye” to her beau’s behavior because she was “so in love with this man.”

Torhov tried to convince herself that she was “overthinking” things, but her initial suspicions were confirmed after the cheater came clean via a Snapchat message.

“I feel pretty bad and I’m disappointed in myself because there’s something I haven’t told you,” the alleged digital confession read. “One of the boys invited two girls on our cabin trip, and I ended up sleeping with one of them.”

She had reportedly been dating the philanderer for four months when he decided to go on a jaunt within this country with his pals.
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After a long period of suspicion, the cheater finally came came clean about his misdeed in a SnapChat message.
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The remorseful man went on to claim that he had no “desire to do anything” with those women, but things took a turn after one of the gals “had to sleep over because they couldn’t get home” — and there were only two beds, he claimed.

“She slept in my room, and it went as it did, but that’s no excuse anyway, I thought it was stupid of me,” the bozo insisted.

He also pointed out that while he and Torhov had not previously established an “exclusive” relationship, his conscious weighed heavy after the time they’d spent together — insisting that he is “quite disappointed” with himself. “This is really not the person I want to be.”

Torhov was devastated by the admission.

“When I read the message I was kind of shocked and obviously very sad,” said the crestfallen gal. “He came home to me and had sex with me straight after he had sex with the girl on the cabin trip,” she lamented.

Despite her beau’s romantic infraction, Torhov decided against dumping the bozo.
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She was furthermore disappointed with his delivery — via social media app. Insisting they break up “face-to-face” — the star-crossed lovers would rekindle their romance in the end.

“I decided to give him a second chance and he’s turned out to be a very sweet and nice boy,” Torhov said.

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Adrienne Arsht sells Miami estate for a record $106.87M

Living in the Free State of Florida doesn’t come for free.

Businesswoman and philanthropist Adrienne Arsht has sold her 4-acre waterfront compound in Miami’s Coconut Grove neighborhood for a cool $106.87 million, its listing brokerage confirmed to The Post on Friday. The Wall Street Journal, which broke news of the sale, reported that mighty sum not only breaks a sales record for Miami-Dade County, but also marks the first time a Miami home has traded hands for nine figures.

Arsht listed the property in January for $150 million, with that asking price also having marked a record for the priciest single-family spread ever to list in that county.

The identity of the deep-pocketed new owner, according to listing brokerage Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices EWM Realty, is undisclosed. That buyer first visited the spread in July and the deal reportedly moved fast. However, Arsht — for her part — knows she’s leaving the estate in good hands.

“As the steward of this beautiful property, I am proud to leave its legacy to the next generations of caretakers,” said Arsht in the press statement. “May they also enjoy the breathtaking view!”

Located in Coconut Grove, the property has views of downtown Miami.
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It features 400 feet of water frontage.
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The estate has two houses. This one, Indian Spring, has a pool.
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From the time Arsht listed it, she knew she would donate the proceeds of the sale to charity — and she still doesn’t know which one, or ones, she’ll choose.

This high-dollar deal beats the previous record set earlier in 2022 by InterSystems founder Phillip Ragon’s roughly $93 million purchase for three adjacent Atlantic Ocean-front homes in Golden Beach.

Arsht’s estate — neighboring the Vizcaya Museum — includes two separate houses spanning some 25,000 square feet of living space and a total of 12 bedrooms. Perched on one Miami’s highest Biscayne Bay-front elevations, it also includes more than 400 feet of water frontage, looking out to views of Key Biscayne and the downtown Miami skyline.

Arsht will donate the proceeds of the sale to charity.
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The compound’s main residence is known as Indian Spring, which Arsht built in 1999, tapping Jose A. Gelabert-Navia, a former dean of the University of Miami School of Architecture, for the design. Inside Indian Spring, which has a foyer with a sweeping staircase, all living areas have views of Biscayne Bay — and include a great room and a formal dining room with seating for 20-plus guests.

The master bedroom suite has a full gym. Elsewhere, this structure has a garage for six cars, an upstairs apartment with an office space, a swimming pool that fronts the bay and a lighted tennis court. Arsht purchased the site for Indian Spring in the late 1990s for approximately $4 million. That land was previously owned by the Ziegfeld Follies star Peggy Hopkins Joyce and her then-husband, the lumber magnate James Stanley Joyce.

The estate has a total of 12 bedrooms.
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Villa Serena has a stunning tiled floor.
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Another angle of Villa Serena.
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The other residence on the grounds is known as Villa Serena, which dates to 1913. William Jennings Bryan, a former US Secretary of State and a three-time candidate for president, built it with the design help of architect August Geiger. It’s listed on the National Register of Historic Places — and it, too, looks out to bay vistas. Restored by Arsht after she bought it in the late 2000s for about $12 million, Villa Serena boasts two ornate staircases heading up to the sleeping quarters and, elsewhere, a three-car garage with a guest house perched above.

Villa Serena had been listed in 2007; a developer had planned to purchase it, demolish the existing structure and build several homes on its land. Arsht worked with local historians to give it that historical designation. The restoration took upwards of four years and cost several million dollars.

Indian Spring, the more recently built home, has a massive dining room.
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Another grand entertaining area inside Indian Spring.
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Another peek inside Indian Spring.
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Arsht hails from Delaware and splits her time between Miami, Washington, DC and New York. She’s the former head of her family’s TotalBank, which sold to Spain’s Banco Popular Español in 2007 for $300 million. Miami’s Adrienne Arsht Center for the Performing Arts bears her name following a $30 million donation made in 2008.

Ashley Cusack of Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices EWM Realty had the listing. Jill Hertzberg of The Jills Zeder Group with Coldwell Banker represented the buyer in the deal.

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I had a really bad period —and it led to this shocking diagnosis

Two days after getting her COVID booster shot, Victoria Lang had an “insane” period.

That one abnormal flow uncovered a shocking diagnosis — the 30-year-old pharmacist had cancer.

“I woke up in the morning and I had to run and get a towel to hold under me,” Lang told South West News Service. “I know what is normal for me and what my periods are like and this was insane.”

At the time — March 2021 — news was circulating about vaccines possibly affecting menstrual cycles, so Lang decided to wait 24 hours to see if things would get better. But the next day, she said she continued to bleed heavily.

Lang, who lives in Scotland, noted that she had a few bruises on her knees and shoulders but since she knew how she got them, she said, “alarm bells weren’t going off.

“But the bruises did take ages to heal properly.”

“I woke up in the morning and I had to run and get a towel to hold under me,” Lang, 30, told South West News Service. “I know what is normal for me and what my periods are like and this was insane.”
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She called her physician, who ran some blood tests. The next day, her doctor told her she needed to go to the hospital, according to SWNS.

“I knew at that point something was seriously wrong and I had leukemia in my head,” she told the news service.

A doctor told her that it might be leukemia, but that they needed to take a bone marrow sample for confirmation. After being diagnosed with acute promyelocytic leukemia, Lang spent 42 days at a cancer center — and told SWNS that the blood cancer might not have been discovered as quickly if it she hadn’t noted the abnormal period.

Lang spent 42 days at a cancer center — and told SWNS that the blood cancer might not have been discovered as quickly if it she hadn’t noted the abnormal period.
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Lang said she gained weight and went up a dress size. She added: “I have been left with really bad stretch marks, you would think I had had twins, but my skin just couldn’t cope with it.”

The disease is now in remission and Lang is having normal periods again.

“I would say to people to just trust your instincts, you know what is normal about your own body,” she told SWNS. “I knew my period wasn’t right and if I hadn’t called the doctors to discuss it then I might not have been diagnosed as quickly.”

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Tenants say luxe Jersey City building floods, is a ‘nightmare’

For Jordan Mendelson, 28, living in a luxury building with a rooftop swimming pool, private gym, floor-to-ceiling views of Manhattan, the Hudson River and Statue of Liberty all within a stone’s throw away from New York City sounded like a dream when she got the keys to her $3,600-per-month two-bedroom apartment in September 2020. But six months later, it became a living nightmare. 

In March of 2021, Mendelson, an attorney, got a frantic call from her fiancé while she was at the hair salon saying the elevator in their 49-story building in Jersey City — 70 Greene — had flooded. 

“There was water pouring down in the elevator. We ended up having to climb up 72 flights of stairs,” Mendelson, who lives on the 36th floor, told The Post. She said it took her 40 minutes to hike up to her apartment, where she found her cat scurrying in fright, amidst no power and a leaky ceiling. 

Slow and stalled elevators have been an ongoing issue, Jordan Mendelson said.
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“We hadn’t experienced anything like this,” she said, noting a pipe bursting in the building. The same thing happened, she said, in April 2022, and once again – and at its worst – earlier this month. That time it was so bad that hordes of residents had to relocate to nearby hotels for four days, sources told The Post. 

According to the listing portal Rent, Jersey City is now the most expensive US city to live in, but those living in 70 Greene say it’s hardly a luxurious life. More than 260 of the building’s residents have been sounding off in a community chat about the building’s management — publicly owned real estate company Equity Residential, which owns numerous waterfront properties in Jersey City, as well as New York City, D.C., Boston, San Francisco and others. Some of the gripes include maintenance staff unable to turn off the building’s water during the most recent floods, which reportedly led to a 9-month pregnant woman falling down a flight of stairs as she tried to exit the building. Other complaints include leaks causing property damage, elevator and hot water outages.

During the last flood, the elevator dropped 10 floors down before the emergency brake kicked in, one source told The Post. (Equity Residential denied this claim.) More proof and scathing reviews can be found on Google, Yelp and TikTok. 

Some residents took to social media platforms like TikTok to post about the flooded elevator inside 70 Greene in Jersey City.
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“This building is a complete nightmare. It was duct taped together years ago and its pipes explode every six months,” a Yelp user who goes by John B wrote of 70 Greene.

“The elevators were designed by squirrels and only operate 25% of the time. I don’t care what website tells you its [sic] 5 stars or who in the building says its [sic] a luxury building DO NOT LIVE HERE,” he urged in the one-star review.

Other current residents would agree, particularly after the last flood incident.

“You had to find your way through a dark staircase. Coming down 32 flights of stairs was just impossible. It was complete lockdown for the building,” a 46-year-old resident who has lived in the building for five years and asked to remain anonymous told The Post.

“There was no action plan from Equity until four days after the incident. Imagine just being homeless for four days? You couldn’t get a hotel room because the hotels were packed from residents. The fact that it took four days to come up with a resolution plan is unheard of, especially in a place where rents are exorbitant,” they said.

A flooded hallway after a pipe burst inside 70 Greene.
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A spokesperson for Equity Residential noted that residents will get reimbursed for hotel stays and property damage. The spokesperson told The Post they were unaware that a pregnant woman fell during the August building flooding.

Another resident, Clarissa Latman, posted a video on TikTok after the last flood showing puddles of water leaking from the elevator’s ceiling, a flooded gym, soiled carpet and residents climbing up flights of stairs as firetrucks appeared to assess the situation outside the building.  

“I have lived here for more than three years, and have experienced a number of dangerous conditions which came to a head after our third major flood due to negligent maintenance of the building’s pipes,” another resident, who asked The Post to remain anonymous out of fear of building retaliation, said. “The building has been giving us the run around, not communicating with us,” said the source, who also claimed 70 Greene was “deleting reviews” all the while upping the rent by as much as 30%. 

Jersey City, often called the invisible sixth borough of New York City, can command an average of $5,500 in rent, according to a report by the listing portal Rent as previously reported by The Post. Mendelson started packing her bags after seeing her own two-bedroom apartment listed for $5,942, up from the $3,600 COVID deal she got in 2020. 

“We ended up chasing them [70 Greene] for a lease renewal and they came back at $4,400, but it was still a $600 increase in one year,” Mendelson said,

Another woman paying close to $3,900 for a one-bedroom, who asked The Post to leave her name out, said she suffered $1,500 in property damage from the most recent flood when leaks from the ceiling on her 15th-floor unit damaged clothing, shoes, bedding and personal items in the apartment she shares with her partner. Luckily, she had renter’s insurance and said the building had offered to pitch in.

A memo posted inside the building notifying residents of a closed amenity space following the flood.
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“Unfortunately we did recently have a pipe burst at 70 Greene which resulted in water damage to a number of apartment units as well as common areas and impacted the regular operation of the elevators,” Equity Residential spokesman Marty McKenna told The Post.

“We have worked with the impacted residents to find other accommodations, which we are paying for. We have also offered rent abatements to the residents. We are working with our contractors to assess the cause of the pipe burst and to make the necessary repairs at 70 Greene.”

Mendelson, however, is wary of such messaging from the management company after all she’s seen. She and her fiancé will be moving next month.

 “It’s not worth it, at the end of the day,” she said.

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Owner of car Princess Diana died in wants the vehicle back

It’s been 25 years since Princess Diana perished in car crash in Paris, changing the trajectory of the royal family forever.

Etoile Limousines owner Jean-Francois Musa was the proprietor of the vehicle that the Princess of Wales died in, alongside Dodi Fayed and driver Henri Paul, on Aug. 31, 1997.

Musa, 63, is now claiming that French authorities have not allowed him to take back his missing Mercedes-Benz S280.

“It’s legally mine — [but] I have no idea where the car is,” he told the Mirror. “All I know is it is legally mine and obviously I want it back. It should have been returned by now but that hasn’t proved possible. I always owned it outright. It wasn’t subject to any financing.”

While Musa has stated that he wants the wreckage — which experts said could be worth more than $10 million — to be put in an American museum to commemorate the beloved people’s princess, he alleged that the royal family would prefer the automobile to be trashed secretly.

It was reported in 2017 that the car was held in a police impound lot in a shipping container in Creteil — a city outside of Paris.

The wrecked car that Diana, boyfriend Dodi Fayed and their driver Henri Paul died in 25 years ago.
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Diana became a part of the royal family when she married Prince Charles at St. Paul’s Cathedral on July 29, 1981 in London, England.
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Conspiracy theories about Diana’s death have long plagued her memory, with many claiming her passing was not an accident.

“There was no plot,” Musa insisted. “This was a routine road accident – the kind all of us dread. It is all very sad.”

Lord Stevens, the former head of the Metropolitan Police, told Times of London recently that theories about the accident are more popular than ever this year, as it marks the 25th anniversary.

The 79-year-old had also led Operation Paget, which investigated the tragedy.

“She was so popular. People find it very difficult to understand how someone like that could die in such an accident,” he said.

He went on: “You will have certain people around who — whatever the evidence — will still think there is a conspiracy here. I think it is probably impossible [to persuade them otherwise].”

Musa noted that the date Diana passed was such “a sad day.”
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A new Discovery+ docuseries, “The Diana Investigations,” reported that Princess Diana predicted she would die two years prior to the accident.

The new investigation revealed that Princess Diana told her lawyer, Victor Mischon, in 1995 that efforts to “get rid” of her would be attempted in the following year — citing a car accident as one of the possible means.

While Diana claimed “reliable sources” granted her the information, she was tight-lipped about their true identity, as documented in a letter penned by Mischon.

Dubbed the “Mischon Note,” the conversation provided eerie insight into what could have led to that fateful night, Aug. 31, 1997, when her driver Henri Paul crashed inside Paris’ Pont de l’Alma tunnel.

With a concoction of prescription drugs and alcohol in his system, and speeding at 65 mph, Paul attempted to ditch paparazzi on motorbikes, and instead sent the Mercedes carrying Princess Diana and her partner Dodi Al-Fayed into a pillar.

Following the crash, Mischon gave the note to Sir Paul Condon, the Metropolitan Police commissioner at the time, but a formal inquiry into the princess’ death didn’t begin until Jan. 6, 2004.

Called Operation Paget, the then-Metropolitan Police Commissioner John Stevens launched the investigation, unearthing the startling note from a safe kept by Condon.

Stevens interviewed Mischon prior to the attorney’s death in 2005, confirming that Mischon “hadn’t held much credence” to the princess’ concerns. In fact, he thought “she was paranoid.”

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