Cafe owner defends asking family to leave over toddler tantrum despite online backlash

An Aussie cafe owner is defending his decision to ask a family to leave over a toddler tantrum after a woman posted a video of her angrily protesting his actions.

Co-owner of Adele’s Cafe in Horseshoe Bay on Magnetic Island, Adrian Dalloste, said it was the first time in his eight-and-half years of operating that he asked a family with children to leave his store.

Speaking to news.com.au, Dalloste said he “could count on one hand the number of bad customer incidents”.

“I’m lucky to get even one a year,” he said.

As first reported by the Townsville Bulletin, Dalloste said two children became upset when told they would be sharing a gelato between them, claiming one of the children swiped at decorations from the counter and threw a steel flask on the tile floor.

Dalloste, said it was the first time in his eight-and-half years of operating that he asked a family with children to leave his store. Adeleâs Cafe/Facebook

The tantrum lasted for about 15 minutes before Dalloste intervened.

“I only intervened because the children were vandalizing the shop and disrupting other customers,” he told the Townsville Bulletin.

In the video recorded earlier this month, mother Laura Edwards criticized the decision, deeming it “absolutely disgusting.”

“It wasn’t a meltdown or tantrum; my kids make more noise than these kids do. It was just a grizzly kid needing some help to sort through his emotions at the time,” Edwards told the Townsville Bulletin.

“The parents were sitting down with them; they weren’t running riot.”

In the video recorded earlier this month, mother Laura Edwards criticized the decision, deeming it “absolutely disgusting.” Adeleâs Cafe/Facebook

Edwards entered the shop to address the matter with the cafe, leading to a heated argument audible throughout the entire establishment.

In the midst of the confrontation, she claims she was told, “We’re not a creche.”

As a mother-of-three and a customer, Edwards believed she had the right to intervene, expressing that the business could have handled the situation more effectively.

Dalloste expressed confusion over Edward’s intervention.

He said it wasn’t her concern and pointed out that she arrived after he had informed the parents they needed to leave.

Dalloste said the family refused to leave at first and that he eventually warned that he would need to call the police. Adeleâs Cafe/Facebook

He said the family refused to leave at first and that he eventually warned that he would need to call the police.

“Good on the business owner, I would of [sic] done the exact same thing. He has a duty to make sure everyone has an enjoyable experience. I have kids and when they were little, if they carried on like little brats I would of [sic] packed up and left out of the respect for others,” said one woman on the Townsville Bulletin Facebook page.

Responsible parents should either have taught said children how to behave and show respect for others or remove them from annoying others,” added another commenter.

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Aussie boy had plastic flower lodged in throat for 5 years

A young Australian boy who has struggled with breathing issues for most of his life had a small plastic toy lodged in his throat.

A cough has lingered throughout eight-year-old Marley’s short life, which had made it hard for him to breathe and caused him to frequently vomit.

Marley developed a cough when he was around two years old, but his parents did not think much of it at the time.

Doctors diagnosed him with asthma a couple of years later, but his puffer did nothing as his condition gradually grew worse.

His Dad Jay Enjakovic said they thought something did not add up, so the family of four vowed to find the reason behind Marley’s poor health.

“With Marley in the last few years playing a lot of sport and football and basketball, it slowly went downhill pretty quick. He couldn’t run out his games, coughing a lot more, bringing a lot of food up, bringing water up every time he ate,” Jay told the Today Show on Tuesday.

“That’s when Skye and I really pressed and pushed and asked more questions. We really wanted an answer because we had a feeling it was not asthma.”

Marley struggled with a cough for his first eight years of life.
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After multiple trips in and out of the hospital, Marley’s condition reached a breaking point in December of last year when he became “quite critical” and an ambulance was called for him.

Doctors ordered an x-ray when he arrived, but Marley’s mother Skye Enjakovic said they made one crucial change.

“Luckily his x-ray pictures were taken a little bit higher up this time and they realized there was something going on with his esophagus and his trachea,” she said.

Marley’s surgeon later told his nervous parents that their son had been diagnosed with tracheoesophageal fistula.

Marley Enjakovic’s surgeon originally diagnosed him with tracheoesophageal fistula.
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“It is a connection from his esophagus to his trachea, meaning that food, drink and saliva had basically been entering his trachea (airway) and going on to his lungs,” Skye explained.

“Children are born with this condition but it is always picked up either in pregnancy or at birth and is operated at a few days old.”

Marley’s surgeon could not look down his trachea due to the inflammation, so he was later sent to Melbourne children’s hospital for a surgical repair on December 27.

But before operating, the surgeons decided to take another look at his trachea.

Skye “nervously” waited for hours to find out what they had found, but she was not prepared for their shocking discovery.

Marley Enjakovic’s family is now raising money for the Women’s & Children’s Hospital Foundation in Adelaide, Australia and have already passed $1300.
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“A few hours later I received a phone call to meet his surgeon at recovery where they pulled a piece of plastic, an arts and craft plastic flower, from his airway,” she said.

“I honestly couldn’t believe it! This was the whole cause of everything! I was relieved I finally had an answer.

“We are unsure how long this price of plastic was lodged in his airway, but my guess is at least five years as that’s when we started noticing small issues which became worse over time.”

Jay said he was in “disbelief” and “complete and utter shock” when he heard the news, particularly over the plastic flower they recovered.

“Wish it was manly like a hot wheels or something,” he joked.

He said the family holds no resentment towards the doctors who did not discover the reason for Marley’s condition earlier when the family always believed it was not asthma.

“Sometimes you have to push that little bit more you know, doctors don’t know everything,” Jay said.

In fact, the family is raising money for the Women’s & Children’s Hospital Foundation in Adelaide, Australia and have already passed $1300.

But the while the source of Marley’s health issues has been found, that does not mean his battle is over yet.

“Unfortunately Marley has not healed as suspected from Melbourne, after the inflammation had settled the connection was still there,” Skye said.

“He honestly is the strongest kid, he hardly ever complains, he is so brave!”

Marley will be undergoing major surgery in Melbourne on Tuesday to repair his airway and esophagus.

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