My husband’s personality changed for the worst when he quit drugs
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My husband’s personality changed for the worst when he quit drugs

DEAR ABBY: Eight years ago, my husband of 26 years had a stroke, and his personality changed. He was difficult to deal with, but, with time, his old personality came back, and things got better.  Two years ago, he finally kicked a longtime prescription drug habit. Our finances improved almost…

My step mom encourages my disabled elderly dad to drive even though he shouldn’t
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My step mom encourages my disabled elderly dad to drive even though he shouldn’t

DEAR ABBY: I’m struggling to continue my relationship with my dad, who is in his 80s. He recently became very ill and nearly died. He was unable to walk for several months, and when he was finally able to start getting around, it was with a wheelchair and walker. Dad…

My abusive former boss is my neighbor — how do I ignore him?
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My abusive former boss is my neighbor — how do I ignore him?

DEAR ABBY: Fifteen years ago, my partner and I moved to a new community, befriending a neighbor whose initial kindness and generosity impressed us greatly. When the neighbor learned I was unemployed, his influence enabled me to secure a position with his company.  In a professional setting, however, the neighbor…