I have 11 kids and 8 baby daddies – trolls say I’m embarrassing but I don’t care
It takes a village to raise a child — or, sometimes, just one busy woman.
A mom-of-11, who has children with eight different fathers, hit back at trolls calling out her lifestyle — claiming they wouldn’t be saying that if she were a man and, besides, she loves her life.
Phi, from Memphis, shares her busy family dynamics on TikTok and often responds to criticisms from users about her lifestyle.
In one clip, the 36-year-old says there are double standards surrounding children with different partners.
“Men can have multiple baby mamas and no one bats an eye but I get talked about for having multiple baby daddies,” she says, adding she wouldn’t get the same reaction if she went to a sperm bank.
Of course, “The Masked Singer” host Nick Cannon — the father of 11 with one more on the way — may disagree with her first statement.
In another video, Phi responds to a comment that read, “I just know half of them dudes embarrassed af to have you as a baby mumma.”
“Me telling them y’all assumptions and laughing at y’all,” she hit back, adding in a comment: “Speak for yourself cause I love it here!”
Phi has mixed reactions from followers — some admire the busy mom while others were too fixated on her child-to-father ratio.
“This a weird ass flex. Dirty too,” one user commented on a video of Phi proudly saying she doesn’t know anyone with more than eight baby daddies.
“omg are you fr? is that a flex?” questioned another.
“I can’t handle the 1 I have,” joked another user.
Others said they’ve been on the other side.
“On the flip side my 1 baby daddy has 13 baby mamas,” added another.
Last October, the mom spoke about the advantages of having so many men around.
“Let me explain it,” she said in a TikTok rant after she went viral for revealing her growing family makeup. “If you have one and you take away one, you have zero but if you have eight and you take away three, you still have five.”
She also suggested she wasn’t ready to call it quits.
“I wanna have, like, another 19, just so I could make it even, 30,” she said.
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